Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Observer of behavior



As I become an observer of behavior here in the Philippines I recognized that most people lives in the past, they seem to carry baggage of the past like ill feelings or harm that was done few years back. I don't think it's the place where I am, it's happening wherever you are or go but because I have a lot of free time here I can mostly observed where people tend to fall in their own pitfalls. They are unconscious of their own behavior and project outcomes that tend to separate than unite.


Instead of forgiving or letting go they seem to attached themselves to pain and suffering. How do you help others recognized this type of behavior? For me I just let it be, I am a witness and if I try to correct or try to help, they would not listen to you anyway because they live inside their head. Why waist your energy helping them to see the light? From my experience they would learn from their own journey and if you happen to be there while it's happening, all you have do is to remind yourself that it's their own choice and path to thread. Sometimes as a healer you tend to help too much and forget that each has their own time to heal. When the students are ready the teacher appears.


Is anybody there?


Hummingbird

2 comments:

  1. Hello Teza, good to hear from you. In the last week or so I've really noticed people around me stuck in the future. Worrying about all the things that could happen and letting the fear control them. They say the world is a reflection of oneself so I suppose it's myself that needs to let go of the future. Maybe these people are in my life right now with these problems to show me what I need to do for myself to move forward and that I'm not alone. Thank you for this post for without it I would not have had this insight.
    Blessings to you and your family. :D
    Heather

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  2. Hi Heather!! it's nice to see you here, and I'm happy to know that you are blogging..looking forward to seeing you on April 8th!
    yes we are one and the only way to check if we are in this oneness state is when we don't separate ourselves in what we see, if what we see is others then for sure we are not one within..state of oneness I found helps in my state of consciousness!
    blessings,
    Teza

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