As I become an observer of behavior here in the Philippines I recognized that most people lives in the past, they seem to carry baggage of the past like ill feelings or harm that was done few years back. I don't think it's the place where I am, it's happening wherever you are or go but because I have a lot of free time here I can mostly observed where people tend to fall in their own pitfalls. They are unconscious of their own behavior and project outcomes that tend to separate than unite.
Instead of forgiving or letting go they seem to attached themselves to pain and suffering. How do you help others recognized this type of behavior? For me I just let it be, I am a witness and if I try to correct or try to help, they would not listen to you anyway because they live inside their head. Why waist your energy helping them to see the light? From my experience they would learn from their own journey and if you happen to be there while it's happening, all you have do is to remind yourself that it's their own choice and path to thread. Sometimes as a healer you tend to help too much and forget that each has their own time to heal. When the students are ready the teacher appears.
Is anybody there?
Hummingbird
